Two things..

One - Gods Will

Well, you can't change it... no matter how hard you try. JSYK
& It is how it is meant to be so you are going to have to accept that even though it's really hard too... I still don't completely, I still want things to go the way I planned... But I don't know whats up ahead and God has it all planned out. You have to have trust in God, and believe me when I say He knows what He's doing! He has it all under control!

Two - Prayer

So this Youth Sponsor this Thursday was talking about Prayer..
It's importance and how you have to have you heart in what you are saying because if you don't mean it there really was no point in the prayer.
I also really liked when he said.. "If you don't really pray just try this.. once you wake up just say 'Good Morning God' then maybe in the afternoon say 'Good Afternoon God' and in the evening and at night.. and there are four already.." And like I said in a past post.. about thanking God for well.... everything... Try to at least include a few of those in your prayers.